All About Me

April 26, 2015

Lying.

Legend has is it that George Washington said, "I can never tell a lie." but in the real world, most people do. Since almost everyone actually does lie, I think that lying is sometimes okay.

When deciding whether you should tell a lie or not, you should look at the situation first, like not telling your friends who you really like or what you really got on the test because you're too scared to hurt their feelings. According to the articles that I've read, people said that "it was OK to lie in certain situations, like protecting someone's feelings." because "we can't always pick honesty without compromising some other value that might be as important." This is basically weighing in the benefit and the consequence of a lie.

Although "every lie has its cost,...once a person finds out you lied, you lose currency in their eyes". It's true that when someone lies to you, it's hard to trust them again; the truth can always hurt one's feelings. People would hate you for being too straight forward and would tell you that you don't have to be honest all the time. It has its pros and cons, and sometimes it’s so hard when you’re in this situation.

Lying has a negative meaning, that, it is not good. But sometimes, given the consequences, we do lie to protect a person from getting hurt; it's basing what is beneficial from harmful. In reality, lying itself is morally wrong, because a person who constantly lies will be deceiving other people and can lead into a habit. Little white lies are intended to benefit someone and not hurt them.

April 19, 2015

Teenagers.

Teenagers. They said that a teenager is "a person aged from 13 to 19 years." This means, I am one and I know how we act and feel. I know that I am still starting my teenage years, and that I have much more to go through, but I think I can say some stuff base on what I have been experiencing lately.

Some say that we should enjoy and make the most of it while we are still this young. We shouldn't be so stressed and should be thankful that we have technology that makes everything, well, easier. We should live the moment and not worry or over think everything. I think people are putting too much pressure on us. People want us to act like adults, but when we do, they tell us that we’re just kids, or the other way around.

I feel like us, teenagers are the most stressed. We go to school for eight hours long, go home and do homework for a few more hours. Some teens have other activities outside school like sports, work or even socializing. We barely get any breaks to just relax and think about our life and not worry about what the next day would bring. We don’t get any sleep due to all the stress we get from the day. We don’t have time to have a nice and real meal due to all the things we have to get done. We get too pressured on getting good grades and being perfect.

No one is perfect in this world, but teenagers have to act and be one because that’s how society wants them to be. Some gets bullied, some gets too stressed, some get anxiety attacks, some gets depression, some gets hungry and some, well they just give up.


When will society realize that teenagers are people too? When will they stop pressuring us? When will they realize that we’re not too young to be stressed due to all the work they give us? When will they notice our sufferings? When will they realize that we are people too? When will society be fair and treat teens like we are real people like everyone else in this world? When will they realize that we are so close to giving up?  When?